Hey 3.5 readers. Your old pal, BQB here.
John Paul Sartre’s play, “No Exit” is often summed up as “Hell is other people.”
Forgive me if I get this wrong, but my understanding is the play consists of three deceased people in a waiting room who are waiting to get into the afterlife. They each try to get the other to do something but the other won’t give in to what is wanted.
Thus, if someone would just do what you want, your life would be so much better, but they won’t, so it sucks.
Have you ever felt that way? If only that special someone would love you. If only your spouse would help out more or make more money or do that thing you like in bed or whatever. If only your boss would give you a raise. If only that company would hire you. If only your dumb neighbor would turn his music down while you’re trying to sleep.
The good news is we all have free will. The bad news is we are unable to bend people to our will, at least not without becoming strong-arming dictators that we don’t want to become and that others don’t want to be around.
A lucky few get the breaks in that they find the perfect combo of family, friends, and business colleagues who open the right doors and offer what is desired.
Alas, the rest of us have to put up with squirrel brained circus folk who will make us feel lucky if they close their mouths and look down when it rains so they don’t drown.