Hey 3.5 readers.
Again, I don’t really like to talk about celebrity deaths. I try to keep it at a minimum, but this one got to me.
Glenne Headly passed away this week and if you don’t know who she is, that’s ok. To be honest, I only vaguely knew her name. She was one of those actresses who you saw her face in everything and recognized it right away, but she wasn’t out causing trouble in the tabloids and so on. Alas, the press doesn’t give you extra points for good behavior.
For me, Glenne’s most memorable role was that of Tess Trueheart in 1990’s “Dick Tracy” opposite Warren Beatty. Throughout the film, Dick faces a dilemma – will he choose the true blue, always loyal Tess or the super hot femme fatale Breathless Mahoney (Madonna)?
Breathless was, by far, the babe to end all babes, the woman who could make you look like a big shot if people saw her on your arm. However, she was more likely to dump you for another guy or sell you out to Big Boy Caprice or one of his evil, scheming henchmen.
I don’t think I realized it at the time but looking back, that film was probably my first introduction to the concept that when it comes to love, people tend to be as loyal as their options.
Yes, we all want to be with the “ridiculously good looking person” (Zoolander reference) but stop and think about it. Realize this is a person you have to spend the rest of your life with, or at the very least, will have to go through a lot of agony before they’re out of your life when things turn sour.
The Breathless Mahoneys of the world may be alluring but at the end of the day, it’s the Tess Truehearts that are going to be there for you when you need them. Meanwhile, the Breathless Mahoneys will only be with you…for as long as they need you.
Forsake the Breathless Mahoneys, kids. Pick the Tess Truehearts.